Hi Gabbie,
I can not even imagine how difficult it must be. My son has a VP shunt. He will turn 3 next month and has had it since he was 6 months old. Today for the 1st time he truly knew he had something different behind his ear and asked me "what is on my brain, mama?" I didn't want to fake it and tell him nothing. I did my best not to break down in tears. I told him he had a special machine that help his "brain". He said, "nah, it's not a macheen it's a carrot" we laughed and I hugged him as tight as I could. I know we will have many more questions ahead of us. God willing I will always be able to comfort him and answer him honesty and with compassion.
He just underwent surgery to repair a hernia and a hydrocele (which I insisted were related to his shunt tubing). After surgery the surgeon notified us that the shunt tubing had indeed gone down into his pelvis and lower regions. Which contributed to his hernia and hydrocele.
I hope we can find a way to start a group in San Diego. The only group from Childrens that I know of is Liam's Fund. Is there another group? Do you see a difference in the programmable shunt?